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It has come to light, and hiding it in these times becomes more and more difficult. It's time to speak, understand and support those who need it without judging. No one chooses to be a victim of violence, under any circumstances. It just becomes. Violence always disconcerts, it takes you by surprise. Anyone can imagine how difficult it is to react to an unknown third party who yells at you or mistreats you. It is usual to get paralyzed and angry with ourselves for not having reacted in the moment. Violence intimidates, generates fear and activates defense and survival mechanisms. In the eyes of others it may seem like a simple passivity. The question is often asked: Why don't you just walk away from the violent situation?<\/p><p>If in the face of a single violent event in the hands of a stranger, fear seizes our body, imagine what a woman who is continuously mistreated by the man who tells her that he loves her, with whom she has projects, a story , and maybe children? 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